Misunderstanding.

Being misunderstood effects people in more negitive ways then we can fathom.When i say somthing in confidence to a person with some knowlage of the topic we are decussing, its get annoying when they rebutdule with a answer not related to what is being said.I tend to get confused,fustrated and then most often or not me and the other party disagree.Without knowing it there was a misunderstandig somwhere and its was not adressed and now im led to belive somthing NEGITIVE.