I'm Getting Married - My Biggest Mistake!!

Hello, my dear friends,

Whenever I recall one of the most beautiful days of my life, the day I promised my beloved love until the end, I feel a certain regret. A regret that I can no longer undo. And although I can't correct my mistake, I can warn other future brides not to repeat what I did.

A few years ago, when I was preparing for my wedding day, I didn’t realize how important certain things were. Right after the groom and the great love for him, accessories and adornments should come next in priority.

And on that day, instead of focusing on beautiful and ornate accessories, I chose the glow of my dress and simplicity in jewelry. Oh! How I regret not knowing then the techniques I use now to create theatrical necklaces. Today, my wedding outfit would look much more dazzling, and stunning jewelry would balance the beauty of the dress.

Accessories and embellishments that complete a beautiful, crystal-rich wedding dress should play a leading role.

Now, I help brides who are just like I was a few years ago. I try to make them aware of how crucial jewelry is on this special day. Don't opt for simplicity—this is the one day when you can shine like a true princess. If you haven’t yet chosen your wedding accessories, I can help. You definitely won’t regret it.

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Where to Start?

It’s well known that at every wedding, the bride is the centerpiece, shining brighter than anyone else. And what makes us feel special on this day?

The answer is simple.

It’s the DRESS and accessories that transform us into princesses. Once you’ve chosen the most magnificent, beautiful, and one-of-a-kind dress, you can start thinking about what will perfectly complement it.

It’s very important to determine the neckline of your dress, as it will guide you in choosing the most suitable jewelry. You also need to decide which piece will take center stage—bracelet with earrings, a statement necklace, or perhaps all of them?

Most brides already have a vision of their dream wedding jewelry. I often sketch their ideas on paper to help them visualize the final effect. Sometimes I propose original designs or we work together to create a unique concept during long discussions about their expectations.

Remember, the color of your wedding dress is equally important. There are many shades of white, ranging from alabaster to ivory, ecru, pearl, and porcelain. These nuances might seem subtle, but they make a significant difference. Fortunately, the wide range of soutache colors allows us to mix and match shades to find the perfect fit.

Thanks to this variety of colors, we can break the monotony of wedding jewelry with surprising combinations. It can be understated and elegant or completely bold—the choice is yours.

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And when the wedding is long behind us, we can transform our little girls into princesses too.

There are thousands of accessories for bridal jewelry—it only takes a little imagination. Whether the jewelry is small and simple or large and ornate depends entirely on your preferences.

When preparing for this beautiful and solemn day, remember that you don’t have to settle for mass-produced jewelry made in bulk. There are countless artisans who are happy to help you achieve your dream wedding look. They will bring your ideas to life, match the right colors, and select the best materials. All you need to do is trust them.

Dear future brides, remember that every soutache pattern can be adapted into wedding jewelry. Don’t be discouraged by multi-colored designs—everything can be adjusted and customized. With the right selection of stones and beads, even a basic pattern can turn into a masterpiece.

Don’t fear extravagance, dear brides—this day belongs to you. Feel beautiful and unique, and let your jewelry emphasize that. I wish you all the best on your new journey. Dazzle the world every day.

Thank you for reading this far. I hope I’ve inspired you a little.

Best regards, Kasia Voitak.