Maintain family unity

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The family circle should be considered a sacred place, a symbol of heaven. The family is a sacred circle, a fortress that needs to be protected from strange invasions.

Husband and wife should be all for each other. A wife should not keep any secrets from her husband that she shares with others, just as a husband should not have secrets from his wife that he tells strangers.

In the wife's heart, the husband's imperfections must be buried, and in the husband's heart, the wife's imperfections. Spouses should never allow jokes that may offend another's feelings. Husband and wife should never even jokingly complain to someone they know about each other, as such an apparently harmless joke will bring only trouble and possibly alienation.

A family should be considered a sacred place, a symbol of heaven, a mirror in which we see our reflection. Friends and acquaintances should not interfere with family life. The spouses must be firmly convinced that they fully belong to each other, which gives them a feeling of freedom, peace and trust.

Make sure that the spirit of disagreement does not enter the family. If you fight for unity, differences will be resolved and love will reign in the family. Husband and wife should remember that they can move forward without condemning themselves to an unhappy life due to contradictions. Those who allow even small differences allow the forces of evil to enter their homes.

The cause of disagreement and dispute in families and in society is separation from God. Getting closer to God means getting closer to each other. The secret to true unity does not lie in diplomacy, not in the ability to cope with problems or in superhuman efforts to overcome difficulties, no matter how great they may be, but in unity with Christ.

The closer we get to Christ, the closer we get to each other. The family business must run smoothly, just as a well-regulated mechanism works, consisting of many different parts.

Each member of the family should be aware that they have a responsibility to create comfort, order and organization in the family.

No one should obstruct another. Everyone should participate in a good deed together, encouraging one another. You should be kind, moderate and patient, speak in a low, calm voice, and avoid misunderstandings.

Each member of the family must understand that the family needs to act together. Everyone, starting with a six year old, needs to know what is required of them in order to contribute to the family business.