Parents fault but not all the time
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It says that children are innocent, and they bring happiness to a family from the time they are born. When they come to this world, every child is equal in my eyes, but because of the environment, guidance and understanding power children to behave differently.
Every healthy child is like a healthy plant. If we take care of a plant properly on a regular basis, it grows up and gives us the fruit of taking care of it. In the case of a baby, they are also the same. If we treat them well and guide them properly, they will become a good human in the end.
Children don't think too much before making an action, and making mistakes for them is very natural. In fact, I will be surprised if they don't make any mistakes because nothing is perfect in this world, and expecting them to be a perfect child is nothing more than a dream. But the guidance of parents plays the most important role in determining what kind of person that child will be.
So do you think parents are responsible for the fault of their child? Do you think children could be better if they received better guidance? In my opinion, I think in most cases, parents are somehow responsible for the fault of their child. Ethics and manners are learned from family as well as from parents. Moreover, honesty, truthfulness, and so many good habits can be installed in a child by a family. A child learns most of the behavior from family members, and some of it can be acquired genetically. So I think in most cases it is the fault of parents as well as their methods of raising their child. I know that no parent wants their child to be bad, but parents are also humans, and they can't be perfect in all the cases. So blaming them completely all the time is not also fair, and I want to draw a line for it.
Let's talk about the environment and understanding the power of children. The surrounding environment of a child makes a huge impact on their behavior. From a good environment, a child can receive many positive habits. Suppose a child is surrounded with many good friends; he must learn something good from them, and if somehow the child makes some friends have bad habits, the child can be influenced by negativity, and in that case, parents can't control everything, and I think in that case we can't blame parents for it.
Every child's understanding power is not the same. Some children can understand the love of parents easily, and some can't. And that also makes a difference for a child.
But after a certain period of time, a child is grown up, and that child is capable enough to understand the situation well. He must know what is tried, what is right, and what is wrong. What kind of path he chooses totally depends on him. All the parents can instruct and suggest their child to choose a suitable path, but every individual needs to decide what kind of path they should follow on their own. So in such cases, I think there is no chance of blaming their parents for any mistakes.
Still, I feel the basement of childhood times plays a very important role all the time, and that's why it's necessary to give with the proper guidelines to make a child better.
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