Age isn't just a number in a forever deal

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*Age is just a number when it comes to love and lust because these two things are feeling that are beyond our control, we don't decide who we fall in love with, it just happens and swept us off our feet nor do we decide who we lust after, we just need to find them attractive but these two does not last forever and can not be compared with a marriage that subjects you to taking a forever deal oath with your chosen partner... *

At a point in my life, during my teenage, I had feelings for people that are older than me, I won't call that love, it is more of a lust thing, I didn't crave my peers or people younger than me because I didn't find them appealing enough but as time goes on and I grew older, I stopped having feelings for older people and want my peers and later wanted people much younger than me, which means I actually craved for a certain age bracket. When I was below it, I craved for older people who were at that age when I was at the age, I craved for my peers at that age and when I was older, I craved for younger people at that age...

It is not the same for others, everyone has their taste, some guys want women older than them, that is their taste and it never changes while some detest that idea and will never do it...

The hive Naija prompt on if I can marry someone that is 10 to 15 years older than me is a no-no for me...

It is not a taboo, it is just something I will never do and I have my reasons which I will list below...

When it comes to marriage, age is a very crucial thing we need to put into consideration before taking that big decision....

One thing is common about all men, we love to be respected, getting married to someone who is 15 years older than you will lessen that or the respect may not even be there at all, because the wife will definitely misbehave consciously or unconsciously knowing she is much older than you.

Many people would say people's opinion doesn't matter in their life but that is a lie, getting married to someone who is 15 years older than you will definitely make you the talk of the street and also how will you feel walking together with your wife and a stranger mistook you to be her junior brother or son, how will that make you feel?

If you eventually give birth too, your children will feel embarrassed when their friends use it to mock them...

It has a lot of disadvantages and I don't see any advantage attached to it!

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