The delima of whom to save among my two beloved.

Terminal disease means that it can't be cured. Maybe that person only have few weeks or months to live. But the question is who I will save. Is a bit critical to think of who to save. Saving my husband will means not having my child forever. Then saving my child also means not having a husband. None of these two options are okay for me. I don't want to lose my child or husband. But I have a hard decision to make. What do I do?

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Who will I save? Sincerely speaking, after going through all of the options, I have decided to make the hard choice. I can't be a widow now. No, not now. Losing a child also will not be palatable. But what can I do. I have decided to go for my husband instead of the child. Remember that my husband is my soul mate, my better half. I have to choose to go for him.

My reasons -
Widowhood in the place where I come from is a dead end. It has this stigma that I don't know where it came from. Widows suffer alot from the hands of in-laws. Some even in the hands of other men who loves going out with only widows makes them happy. When you see people tormenting widows, you will begin to pity widows. I don't think that I will want to go through that experience now. No, not now.

Once my husband is okay , we can pull through any circumstances together and prevail. But if I am alone, then there will be big problem for me. We can have as many more children as we want together with my husband being alive.

In summary, I would have loved to save both of them if I have the power, but seeing that my hands are tired, I had to choose whom I feel is the best for me.

Thanks for the opportunity give me by #hive-naija community to participate. I love you all.
Make una allow me dey enjoy with my pikin and husband oh! No come dey ask me question wey dey hard for me. Hahaha 😂. Una Doo. Bayi bayi. 👍